Though you may be tempted to keep your local mommy relationships focused on playdates and stroller strides, you might want to consider taking these relationships to the next level. You'll be surprised to learn that the common denominator between you and your mom friends is not necessarily your kids, but something completely different. And sure, these commonalities may surface in conversations when you
meet moms for playdates, but eventually they will fall to the wayside when your baby throws up all over you, or your 2 year old takes off.
Join a local mom team/club
Every Tuesday and Thursday mornings I leave Jack at a drop-off daycare (great for him) and play ice hockey with a bunch of local moms. Sure, occasionally the kids come up in the locker room chatter, but most of our conversations have nothing to do with the kids. It almost feels like I am back in college with my college hockey friends.
Get a group of local moms together for dinner/drinks
Call the sitter or your hubby and indulge in a fun night out with the girls. Hit up the local sushi hot spot and finish the night off at a fun dive bar, where you can share memories with other moms about "the college days" or spill your funniest dating stories.
Join a book club
This is personally not up my alley, mainly because I am the worst when it comes to reading. That said, I have a bunch of friends that live for book clubs. They can't wait to share a bottle of wine and apps with their closest mommy friends, while they reflect on the latest juicy read - 50 Shades of Gray comes to mind first :)
Hit a Chick Flick
When was the last time you got out to see a chick flick and could actually joke about the hot lead actor without your husband nudging you? Get some local moms together for dinner and a movie or a movie and drinks. Make sure you set aside enough social time before or after the movie. An alternative to this would be a movie night at one of your houses, maybe after the kids go to sleep.
Meeting other moms in the area is really important, especially for first-time moms. And though it can be extremely difficult to find moms you actually connect with, it's well worth it. Keep it social ladies :) I would love to hear some other fun ideas from moms out there. Comment below!